"Fx na ko baby. Bati na tayo ha?"
That was the sweetest and most heart-warming text I've received from him last Tuesday to which I replied "Onaman baby. Bati na tayo. Di naman kita matitiis no. I love you!" We're having a "lover's quarrel" last week for some...well... shallow but not-really-that-shallow-to-be-ignored reason. Haha! Blame it on the monthly visitor or maybe I'm just being maarte a.k.a nagpapalambing lang. Hay girls. Lol.
My boyfriend and I seldom fight/argue/disagree about things. We've only fought uhmm...about two times. Two times in three months is not that bad. Hehe! I've been the most understanding, caring, and thoughtful girlfriend that I can be and he is the most understanding, caring, and thoughtful boyfriend too! Before, we'd ask each other 'Ano kaya pagaawayan natin baby?' But true enough, we'd never know until the situation is right infront of us. Nevertheless, there is also a good thing about fighting -- we learn a LOT from each other. He learns what pisses me off and vice versa. We learn how to compromise and we learn how to forgive --and forget. I remember one line he told me when we're patching things up. He said 'If you think we're not going to fight in the future, that would be unrealistic. We're still in the process of getting to know each other more. At least we learn from each other. Boring naman kung hindi tayo magaaway. Ano tayo, perfect?' Haha! He was right. No relationship is perfect. There are really times when couples fight and argue but then the most important thing is to learn how to listen and respect each other. Even though my blood level is at its highest point last week (lol), I always (and will always) try to hear what he has to say. My golden rule in relationships is that I should never EVER let a day pass without telling the person I love that I love him. Even though may konting kurot/pagtatampo pa last Monday, I made sure that before I went to sleep, I told him that I love him. Here's our conversation over text (I think he wouldn't really mind if I share some of it so that others may learn from us haha! Ganito talaga kami kasweet)
Marion: Sige baby, I know ako kelangan magcorrect. Pasensya ka na. Konti practice ko sa pagsasabi in advance. Mejo ang setup ko kasi eh nagsasabi naman ako pero minsan late na.
Me: Okay. Sige I'll sleep na. Just text me pag nakauwi ka na.
Marion: Ok baby. Sabay na tayo tomorrow. Megamall na ko. Txt kita pag nakauwi na ko. I love you.
Me: Ok. Ingat ka. Good night.
After thirty minutes,
Me: San ka na?
Marion: SM Fairview na baby. 20 minutes na lang house na.
After twenty minutes,
Marion: House na ko baby.
Me: Ok. Good. Sleep na ko. Good night.
Marion: Good night baby. Thanks for waiting for me. I love you.
Me: I love you too.
Marion: =)
Boy, that feels good... Telling him that I love him eventhough I still feel kind of bad and waiting for him to get home before I actually sleep. Yeah I can't sleep without knowing he's home safe.
So you see? I'm not really a monster girlfriend. Haha! I love my boyfriend too much that I wouldn't let my bad mood hinder in telling him how much I love him.
Come next day, it was like nothing happened. Back to our normal, happy selves. Oh looooove. :)
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