tWiStEd LiFe

I scanned my newsfeed over the weekend and saw that most of the posts by my friends are all about weddings. I saw my elementary classmate got married, a previous and current office mate also tied a knot last weekend. I saw friends posting pictures of them attending weddings. What's up with January 16 and 17?! Lol.

Ohhh weddings... I love weddings. But here I am posting about school work with a hashtag thesisbeforemisis. Hihi.

Bought this planner just because I have to carefully plan the things I need to accomplish within the year. The cover is so apt -- must focus to be able to finish my MBA (first on my list). One more term to go! 😳#thesisit #thesisbeforemisis

I was asked by a good friend if I'm in a panic mode now that...*surprise* reality kicks in...we're in the marrying age. I said, I am not. Getting married is something that you think over not just once but countless of times. You should be really ready before you bind yourself forever with the person you love. It's not that I am not sure with Marion -- I'm more than a hundred percent sure that he is the person I want to get married to. It's just that I want to be completely whole before I say my I do. Just the same, I know he wanted to accomplish a lot of things first before he ask for my hand. Yes, we do talk about it. It's something that we openly discuss without qualms and we are not pressured by our friends. We would actually tell each other... sa tamang panahon. We're young and we have a wonderful future ahead of us.

Admittedly, I'm excited! And I quote, when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. But I have to add that you also want to be 101% ready because marriage is not pure bliss. I don't have a crystal ball and I cannot predict what will happen to us in the future -- we still fight, disagree, irritate each other. He is so OC and I get pissed like hell at him because his OC-ness makes him so mabagal and I always have to wait for him be ready, telling him na mas babae pa siya kumilos sakin. We fall under the same statistics and we have the same chance of failure as any other people in a relationship. But what I know for now is that we are taking time and we're slowly getting there. 

Funny to note that nowadays people's version of asking me on how am I doing is this... kelan ka na ikakasal? And I was like, yun agad ang tanong?! Di man lang kumusta?!? Hahaha! So, I now have a perfect answer to that question.

Let His will be done.

Here's my current favorite picture of us :D